My mom is cheating on my dad, what must I do ? Who replied to this session Yahya al-Bolaini The query I am on the verge...
My mom is cheating on my dad, what must I do?
Who replied to this session
Yahya al-Bolaini
The query
I am on the verge of a nervous
breakdown from the time I located my mother's betrayal of my father
I even have evidence of this
She noticed a suspicious exchange in
her conduct
I checked the problem in my own manner
till I brought a record of her secret communique with someone who changed into
our neighbor in some other town, knowing that we moved from that city some time
ago.
The verbal exchange became indicative
of a relationship between them and that she cherished him for a long term, and
there are words indicating that she did adultery with him whilst we have been
there and requested him to go to her right here in our new town on the earliest
opportunity
I like palmite, I walk among humans
and do not know what to do
Knowing that my father suffered a
stroke, he lost his speech
Therefore, there could be not anything
however me
My mother is nervous, and even if I
spoke one word on the difficulty, I worry the consequences, inclusive of losing
her all the time ...
Please advise me, they have weakened
my frame due to the intense fear and I do no longer want to hurry into subjects
and may God praise you with good
The answer:
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
In the beginning, I pray to God to
make us see the fact and say it on our tongues
My dear brother and the virtuous son
who changed into with this super trial:
I can't write a single word before I
pray to God the Almighty to relieve you of staying power with him and to show
you at the truth and to make this excessive anguish inside the hobbies of your
stability on the day you get hold of your Lord and provide you with the
correctness of the saying and exact deed and to repent for your mother and
return it to him in a lovely response.
With anyone denouncing this
outstanding thing that has taken region and is likely to be non-stop and
perhaps also coming, we are positive that the door of the forgiveness of God
Almighty does not close and that His mercy has extended everything as His Glory
says: Say, O My servants, who ruin their souls, they may not be of God All sins
are forgiven, for He is the Forgiving, the Most Merciful. We additionally
accept as true with that the door of repentance and the course of procuracy are
His glory will not be interrupted till the servant is gargling as it's far
actual of our loved, peace and blessings of God be upon him: “Verily, the
Exalted is typical.”
Although this remember was a high-quality
calamity that afflicted this entire residence, what's required is to deal with
it with excellent expertise with the circumstance of a medical professional,
and that is what I wish may additionally God assist you with.
Perhaps due to the fact the instances
are intense and tough, as you referred to, due to the fact the proprietor of
the hassle is your mother, and it is a excessive surprise for the pious son to
look the guilt that falls from his mom, who is meant to - and he is the origin -
to be based on staring at him and urging him on all virtues, so with the
severity of the matter and its excessive difficulty to your intervention In it,
but, you can not assist you, and also you can not stay silent about it. Simply
leaning on oneself and burying the pinnacle in the sand can by no means resolve
some thing inside the matter and must intervene and deal with it quick and
wisely.
I will display you a few points and
paths to remedy, perhaps you must choose one or take all of them simultaneously
so possibly one among them is the great and the satisfactory for you according
to what's available to you:
- The way you
face the opposite man is a route that requires reflection, so do no longer
concentrate first to a counselor who wants to act at the kids’s food regimen, so
he asks you to do any bad conduct with him, due to the fact the hassle does now
not lie in it beginning - thinking about what belongs to you - but as a
substitute lies with you in your private home and for this the remedy starts
offevolved from internal your property and no longer from outdoor it
- It is
likewise clean that what is required is that your father not get hold of some
thing from this complete rely, so what is in it isn't able to withstand the
sort of surprise and the satisfactory attachment to it.
- You can
estimate according to your knowledge of your mother's nature. Is it better for
her to tell her alone and reveal her records? This is better - a guarantee of
concealment, but if its nature will make it attack you and not acknowledge what
you did, it is necessary not to enter you alone directly with it in discussions
and arguments, then you may deny everything and perhaps take from your father a
weapon against you to keep silent about what is happening, especially if you
guarantee that the matter did not go outside of you and then not You approach
it in something so that you have a supporter of the wise, with wisdom,
experience and kinship that is close to you, such as aunt or aunt or an example.
- Do not enter
in the matter except the people of trust from the members of your mother’s
family and prefer the elderly and experienced and counseled who can influence
it and you will not be executed in the people of your mother a man or a big
woman who can direct and put pressure on her but it is not preferable to go to
the youngest of her or to a woman who hates her then it will be The results are
not positive.
- Make
everything you do secretly between you and the one you trust. Do not talk about
this matter with anyone, not even from younger brothers, so beware with caution
if the matter turns into a scandal that you lose is the advantage of being shy
about informing people, so do not care about their opinion. They know what you
hide.
Whatever the results of these
meetings, whether by admitting them in error or denying it, then you must
exercise caution, increase your follow-up and control over them, narrow their
exit and reduce the freeness of your house from you and your brothers.
- Finally, we
only heard from you and from your message, so if what you say is true and
certain, your mother disobeys God, glory be to Him, and all of the children of
Adam are wrong, so do not close the door of repentance at all, so you should
pray a lot to her that God Almighty will spare her the temptations that appear
from her and what is belly, and you also have her righteousness, then you He is
commanded, regardless of obedience or disobedience. Righteousness is your
obedience to God in it even if his disobedience is, and righteousness is a
right in the right of the believer to his father and his mother regardless of
their actions with him or in the side of God, and you must also be attached to
your father who all the pain is upon him, so you should pray for him, his aid
and his righteousness.
May God bless you, my honorable
brother, and relieve your concern as I ask him to repent for every sin and to
bring us back to him and give us a beautiful response.
Revives
the Polynesian
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